The question is...
Kakak, is it wrong to be friends with my friend's bestfriend which is a guy. Okey let me translate it into Malay. Haha. (Salah ke klaw kyte nak kwan dgn membe laki kwan pompuan kyte?) Her friend love that boy but at the same time, that boy does not have any feeling at her friend. And, this girl being friends with this boy and they contact each other until calling each other "sayang-sayang". And the argument between this girl and her friend started. This girl said, her friend siap maki lagi. Faham ke tak soalan ni. ngahaha!! Hadoii @_@
Okay, first of all, actually I did not know how and what to answer, but I just try to answer her question lah kan. Even my answer like merapu jek.
So, after I ask her about their friendship background. so, I can imagine a little bit of the situation that happen to them. Okay, as for me. Okay, first of all, I had to admit..... I pernah jadi rebutan 2 jejaka. OMG!! Is it serious?? Mesti tak percaya kan. Well, a girl yang personality biasa ni menjadi rebutan? Ngahaha. Until now, I feel its nonsense and it is not last long okaay. And it happens long time a go. During my bachelor degree actually and it is just happen for 5 months. Then, after that, after my degree.. it is just pufff!! It's gone. (--") Actually, it's HURT enough for me. Just imagine..jadi rebutan and that guy that win..who said love me and bla bla bla..(annoying betul)...finally send me his message. [Break up].
And me..... you know..when you not cry at all means you are really HURTs. Okay..just forget it! heh.
So, in this girl's situation...two girls wants a boy. However, her friend already had a boyfriend. Oh, very the tamak la girl these days. Can't you just be a loyal person?? Loyalty in really important in relationship you know. (--")
Okay..as for me, it's just like triangle love story.. A love B, but B love C. B and C love each other. And left A alone. So sad right?
My advice, you have to think positive. If you guys are meant to be together so, you don't have to be worried. If your friend maki-maki and do all the unnecessary things..post nonsense statement in facebook or twitter, just let her. It's just the emotional thing for a girl. But you, as a friend..you have to explain nicely about the relationship of each three of you. I know it's hard but at least just give a try. And that boy, as a 'gentleman' boy..he must explain his feelings toward each of you so that misunderstanding will not going to happen. Jangan rebut-rebut boleh? Please don't. At first, just be friends and knowing each other. When you feel that both of you are meant to be..just go for it.
Just take note that we, as a person, just relax and think positive. everything had its own Hikmah. There is something in something. It's depends on us to deal with the test that given to us.
p/s: perempuan sometimes annoying kan. Otak penuh dengan benda mengarut. Bersabar je la. hahahahah. Well, your mommy and sis also a woman right?? :p
p/s/s: already 1:20 a.m. belum tido.
Ya Allah, Murahkan Rezeki Bagiku ....
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